Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Deja vu

Source: www.logility.com
By the way, I posted an ad on Locanto Singapore looking for a boyfriend for almost 6 months and even now, I still get new guys contacting me. The unfortunate thing is that history keeps repeating and won't stop.

I visited a friend whom I got to befriend while I was in the IMH (short for Institute of Mental Health). NO! I'm not mad. By the way, just for your information, the IMH in Singapore is not just a shelter for the truly mad people, they are also for people with depression. They are also people who are admitted because they want to seek a temporary shelter before going home. All they have to do is to tell the doctors they are mad and they will be admitted. There were also foreign maids who were working in Singapore. If some maid employment agencies found that their maids are seriously homesick, they would send them here too before sending them back to their home country,

So back to my deja vu stories.

The world is awashed with Indians, Bangladeshis and Pakistanis:
I already wrote very clearly that I preferred Chinese man to contact me. However, many men who are browsing the ad simply skip over the details and many Indians, Bangladeshis and Pakistanis living in Singapore contacted me. And even when I told all of them I'm not interested, they are so "sticky" and keep asking me to accept them! I keep praying to God not to send me these men again but my prayers are not answered and history keeps repeating

The world is awashed with divorcees:
Of course, normal single men who have never been married or those who are in a proper marriage would not patronise Locanto Singapore, which is a place for soliciting services. That's why I encountered so many divorcees. This is another thing I don't want to have and I kept praying to all gods to please not let these things ever happen to me again, but they don't seem to hear my prayers and keep sending me divorcees.

The world is awashed with man (married and single) looking for services:
I wrote clearly in my ad that I was looking for a boyfriend to settle down but guys keep contacting me for service. Don't they read?! It happens again and again and I pray to God to stop these fast!

The world is left with men in their late teens, in their early twenties and those more than 40 years old:
I am in my early thirties and I pray to find men in the early thirties as well. But they are missing. I got men as young as 19 years old contacting me to be their girlfriend and guys as old as 50 years old (20 years of age gap!). I have already prayed very hard for God to send me the right person but ... ... sigh!

The world is left with men with no education:
I prayed that I would find a capable men but all I got were men with primary or secondary school education. Recently, there was even a man with a diploma in marketing and had chosen to be a taxi driver as his career. I really do not want to see these men and I prayed hard but God couldn't hear me. My father is a taxi driver and we live a poor life. I do not want to continue to live a poor life. I don't understand why God wants me to punish me sending men to me that will keep me down forever living a lowly life. Please God, hear my prayers please!

Hope these types of incidents will eventually stop soon and I find the right one finally.

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Monday, November 28, 2016

Been a busy bee for the past several weeks

Busy bee
Hi! I'll be coming back.

For those of you who have been following this particular blog of mine, I'm so sorry I have been quiet for so long.

Maybe some of you have been wondering whether I have been busy dating. How I wish!

The reality was: I was bogged down by tons of work from my job and sideline businesses. However, I also set aside time to chat with guys and had a few dates, just that dates only came by occasionally.

How I wish it was the opposite: lots of dates and finding the final one and lesser work!

Since the busy period is mainly over, I'll be coming back to update this blog more often.

I appreciate your patience with me.

And I will update you about those dates and chats that I have experienced in the past several weeks.

STAY TUNED!!!

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