Only busy men are left

One of the many busy guys whom I chatted with

Another guy just told me he wouldn't be able to meet due to work - why don't I just submit to fate or destiny?

Ever since I posted an ad on Locanto seeking a boyfriend, only the busy men, Indian/Bangladeshi men, uneducated men, unemployed men, old men or young men in their early twenties would contact me.

I don't know what these men are thinking. If they are so busy, why do they bother to contact girls? They are not going to be ready to go out to dates with the girls! Are they thinking they can build a relationship through WeChat or WhatsApp?

Crazy men!

Don't they have the decency to consider that they are wasting both their time and the girls' time if they are not ready to date?

The world of dating gets smaller as my age catches up. Guys who are free are already taken up by other women. Only the busy men, those that other women don't have the chance to cross path with, are left, together with other low quality men that other women don't fancy.

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Sorry I don't have the time; let's not continue

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If a guy says he has not the time for you, forget about him.

Time is the most previous commodity each of us has. Every one of us has only 24 hours a day. When a guy tells you he's busy with his work and has no time for you, it's plain bullshit.

Because I have seen the true real man myself.

No matter how busy a man is, no matter how many projects he has on hand at work, no matter how high his position in an organisation, even if he is a C-level executive, if he cares enough for his wife and children, he will find ways and means to spend them with them, simply because he loves them so much.

When a guy tells you he's busy with his work, what you should know is he's telling you you are not his priority. If you are already in a relationship with him, let him know that he should be spending time with you. If he's reluctant, it means he's not that into you and it's better you let him go.

If you only starting to get to know a guy, let me go and don't continue further with him because there won't be much progress. He is only willing to spend time to chat with you online, not on a face-to-face basis. I don't think you want a virtual boyfriend, do you?

I was quite angry with this guy because he was not honest. He was not interested in me yet he just gave me the excuse of his being too busy with his projects and had no time to develop a relationship with me. I told him he should just told me directly he was not interested in me. There's not need to beat about the bush and say "I don't have time", "we are different", or "we're not meant to be". If you encounter this kind of guy, better leave him as quickly as possible because they are not forthcoming with what they say to you.

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