Your cousin is beautiful but you are not? So who can you blame?

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I shared with a guy about my cousin who all the while has told everyone around her she didn't want to get married but suddenly had a change of mind. As if there was magic, within a short time, her eldest brother found her a good match. They dated for only one year before the guy proposed to her. They officially consummated one year later and in the third year of their marriage had their first kid. Everything simply flowed smoothly.

This guy then gave me those comments, telling me that "your cousin is beautiful but you are not. So who can you blame?"

Yes I can blame someone else.

I blame my parents. I want to blame them for not being beautiful and handsome. Otherwise, I would not have to get this kind of comment from men.

But, what this guy said has a bit of truth in it.

If I inherited certain genes from my parents, I have only myself to blame right? It is I who inherited the genes. My parents merely provided the gene pool from which I'm created from but the final product came from me who did the final assembly right?

Ya. I'm to be blamed for everything. My ugliness, loneliness.

But the good thing is, I frequently prep-talk myself out of those depressing thoughts. I managed to find ways to keep myself engaged in positive and fulfilling activities such as blogging and photography.

I have written several eBooks which are on sale on Amazon Kindle, and this Dating Nightmares blog of mine has been fairly successful. I have fulfilled one of my goals of being a blogger and a writer! I have done it! And I'm slowly progressing to fulfill some of my other goals such as being a trainer and coach.

I am trying my best to live a good life. As for the rest, I don't care.

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