Are you okay with a simple dinner?

"Just a simple dinner will do"

"you dun mind a simple dinner right?"

I told this guy I didn't understand what he meant.

Throughout my 31 years of life, I have never had a single complicated or complex dinner in my life.

Every meal that I have, whether it's breakfast, lunch, tea-break, dinner or supper, is always simple.

He asked not once but twice whether it would be okay to have a "simple" dinner.

Sigh.........................................................................................................................

Maybe he thought I needed something else (you know what I mean) besides eating.

I sincerely pray that the actual dinner would not be so bad. I will give you an update on it. Stay tuned.

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Really want to trust you, but ... ...

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Men, I really want to trust you. I have still not given up hope of finding a life partner. But I'm really encountering a lot of obstacles. You have not given me enough evidence that I can trust you and just simply demanded me to trust you when I don't even know you.

On 13 September 2016, a guy contacted me via WeChat and said that he was "sincere about me". Yet, when I sent him my photo and gave him a few details such as my age and career, he did not even reply me and straightaway remove me from his contact list.

How I know that?

Because I was waiting for him to get back to me on when he wanted to meet. When I didn't get the message, I sent him a message to probe his interest but my message didn't get through because WeChat prompted me to send him a friend request to him in order for the message to get through.

So this guy isn't that "sincere about me" at all! It was pure gibberish.

P.S. I was so angry I deleted the entire WeChat messages that I exchanged with him. So I will leave it to your imagination to figure out the process between us.

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Sham marriages? No, now Sham divorces

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In  some countries, people have sham marriages in order to gain certain benefits like citizenship but in some, people file sham divorces in order to also gain certain financial benefits.

I don't know what to think and what to say.

Everything is so linked to money. Everything is so commercialised. Even marriage, which is a kind of fundamental social relationship, is not spared. What these incidents tell me are people increasingly treat marriage/divorce/relationship as a tool to be exploited for gain.

Since 30 March 2015, in Shenzhen, China, there are curbs limiting married couples to buying two properties only. By divorcing, these couples made themselves eligible again as purchases of properties.

Maybe I'm still very idealistic to think that marriage is an expression of love and it is an important relationship that should be influenced by the love and care between a couple and should not be so tied-up with external things.

I'm very disappointed with the way things are going. We are losing true love, true care and concern, not just between humans but also with our natural environment,

Do read more about this matter from Singapore-based TODAY newspaper, "To get Shenzhen homes, buyers turn to sham divorces".

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