Don't ever find a girlfriend when you are too poor

Source: http://thecareercafe.co.uk/

Why are there guys in the world who think getting a wife is about getting a woman who is willing to have no food to eat and suffer with him?

Are you really thinking like a man? Are you a man?

Not long ago, I met a guy who was out of a coordinator job and was recently divorced and so he wanted to seek out a new girlfriend. But I was repulsed. If he couldn't take care of himself, how could he take care of this girlfriend or future wife? How could he take care of kids?

He spoke only Chinese and very little English and kept telling me he wasn't smart and couldn't learn new things. That's just plain bullshit. I was brought up in a Chinese-speaking family. My parents only read Chinese newspaper and Chinese books and watch Chinese programmes. I learned all my English language skills in school and during my free time. I was struggling very hard with English yet I still tried my best to learn. I didn't simply tell myself I was stupid and I couldn't learn. I knew English was important and I was blatantly determined to learn it, no matter how hard, no matter how many attempts I have to try. I didn't come up with any excuses. That man was just full of excuses. How could I find assurance from him that we could actually build a life together? At least, get your life together again before you go out seeking a new girlfriend? Don't find a girlfriend because you need to de-stress yourself as it is very unfair to the girl! Your intention is already wrong in the first place. You want to find a girlfriend because you want to set up a family. You are finding a girlfriend because you are stressed out from economic vicissitude.

It's better that I never contacted him again after that only meet-up.

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